Understand people more…

  • If a person laughs too much, even at stupid things, he is lonely deep inside.

How true is this statement? It depends on why the person is laughing. At a sitcom comedy or a hilarious movie people laugh. Its natural to laugh when you see or read something funny.

When people simply laugh, even at stupid things there is a sure probability that he is lonely deep inside.

Now on the reverse if I take a person who is gloomy always and never laughs, is he also not lonely inside? He is…

So my take on this one is laugh as much as you can and as much as you want. Smile…laugh…live life…

It is way better than sitting with a long face completely gloomy and sad.

  • If a person sleeps a lot, he is sad…

Yes, surely he is depressed. Also he can be lazy which is again because he is sad or lonely or depressed. Over sleeping further leads to laziness, lethargy, yawning and inactivity, so it is a cycle…

  • If a person speaks less, but speaks fast, he keeps secrets.

Yes because he prefers to keep some things to himself. We all do. Keeping secret is not a crime! And well people who speak fast and speak a lot also are trying to hide something.

So let us give space to people and allow them to keep secrets!

  • If someone can’t cry, he is weak…

He is weak because he is unable to release his emotions. Not probably because he is ashamed of society or what people say. A person can cry even when alone. Yet some cannot. Holding the emotions within is in turn harming the person more and making him weak in every sense.

  • If someone eats in an abnormal manner, he is tense.

See this is a general statement. The person might be mentally unstable too, like retarded. A normal person who generally eats in a proper manner, eating in an abnormal manner signifies tension but not in all cases.

  • If someone cries on little things, he is innocent and soft-hearted.

This rings true somehow. If it is not crocodile tears. Some are pampered so much that they cry at almost everything. Also the person could be very emotional and so gets tears in his eyes at every sensitive incident. In such cases the person may or may not be innocent, though surely he is soft hearted.

  • If someone becomes angry over silly or petty things, it means he needs love…

Yes it is true, but more than love this person needs attention!!

We all need love. We are beings of love and love is our very nature…

We all need love as we have forgotten our true nature…so we seek…Actually we are love and so can spread love- unlimited…

So if we understand this and love the self and all others, then the need to understand people is not required. Love is enough… it is the ultimate emotion.

Love unconditionally…

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